If you only take one piece of advice from me, let it be this: Find someone you care about and spend an entire day cuddling in bed.
Forget taking exotic vacations. Forget scheduling expensive spa appointments. Forget even leaving your house. Simply cancel all your meetings, clear your calendar, ignore your inbox - and wrap yourself in the arms of a special someone for the entire day.
It’s one of the most awesome, powerful and centering experiences that I’ve ever had.
So why am I writing about my cuddle day on a fitness blog? As it turns out, cuddling has some very real health benefits.
- It’s good for your heart. According to researchers, frequent hugs between partners are associated with lower blood pressure and higher oxytocin levels. With about 1 in 3 adult Americans experiencing high blood pressure, it looks like many of us could use some more cuddle time.
- It boosts your immune system. Researchers from Carnegie Mellon University found that people who get more hugs are less likely to get sick: “The apparent protective effect of hugs may be attributable to the physical contact itself or to hugging being a behavioral indicator of support and intimacy… Either way, those who receive more hugs are somewhat more protected from infection.” Enough said.
- It lowers stress. In one study, researchers had young girls give unplanned speeches or solve math problems in front of strangers. After completing their task, the girls either received a hug from their mom, talked to their mom on the phone or watched a short video. The girls who received the hug had lower levels of cortisol. Cortisol is a stress hormone that, among other things, retains body fat around your body’s midsection.
Cuddling is a great way to connect with the people you love and to express your affection. But cuddling also serves some very real health benefits, too. So go ahead… and schedule a cuddle day.
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